Communication is the best way to start a productive romance, communications in many levels from verbal to psychic. Be clear as to what your needs are and state them gently. However, also be realistic as to what you ask with regards to what you bring into a relationship. Be willing to negotiate. There is no relationship without tradeoffs. Expectations and communications are a two way street and if you want to receive you need to be open to listen and give.
I do recommend you keep your expectations in check and based on facts, not fantasies. Likewise, do not let someone create false expectations based on dreams, eventually we all wake up from them.
Let’s say you have found someone and things are going well. But first how are you doing with the check list?
1. Did you take care of changing or modifying at least one behavior trait that is off-putting?
2. Are your emotions in check?
3. Are you taking care to look your best?
In romance, as in business, rush kills. You have to act when opportunities knock at your door, but before you answer….be prepared (remember knowledge and emotions?). Be prepared to succeed.
Reviewing, expectations can be shaped through senses: Sight, Smell, Sound, Touch, Taste…and the 6th Sense which can act as a bonding element when you find someone who is truly aligned with you.
Most people have a knowing feeling when they meet their life-time partners, even when meeting a new friend. When two people who are cognizant of having a 6th sense are open to explore it and learn to use it, they can add a whole new perspective to their budding relationship.
If spirituality and psychic abilities are present in your romantic interest, why not work at them together? In my experience couples that have spiritual bonds in common have an additional chance to succeed because their interest makes the relate to communities and strong communities help bond couples.
There is really no magic bullet when it comes to love. Magic rituals, baths and affirmations can help to move things along the way, but the most important part is to pay attention to that Sixth sense for it will guide you to move forward when needed or to simply bail out of a situation that could be detrimental.
Oní Yemayá Achagbá